Finding Peace Before December: A Guide to Embracing the Holidays with Confidence

Finding Peace Before December: A Guide to Embracing the Holidays with Confidence

As the holiday season approaches, a familiar feeling of anxiety and overwhelm can sneak up on us. It's not uncommon to feel the weight of December's hustle and bustle before the first Christmas carol even plays. If this resonates with you, rest assured that you're not alone. A 2025 survey by the American Psychological Association found that 72% of adults consider the holiday season their most stressful time of the year. Thankfully, peace doesn't come from completing a never-ending to-do list but from surrendering to simplicity and intention. 

### Understanding the December Dread 

Let’s delve into why December often brings this sense of dread. The pressure to be merry, the relentless to-do lists, and the guilt of not feeling joyful enough can accumulate stress. However, peace can reign even amidst chaos, starting with a plan and surrender. 

### Preparing for Peace 

Just like financial planning, achieving peace requires preparation. An insightful moment came to me from a client who said, “I always run out of peace before I run out of money.” That became an epiphany—realizing peace needs deposits, just like a savings account. Here’s what you can do: 

#### 1. Journal Your Intentions 

Spend ten minutes each day journaling your thoughts and feelings. This act allows you to process emotions and set intentions. One of my clients experienced a transformed holiday season simply by putting pen to paper each day. 

#### 2. Set Boundaries 

Especially for busy moms, it’s essential to set boundaries. Each "yes" requires time and energy, which are finite resources. Learning to say "no" in love creates space to engage with what truly matters. 

### Simplify Expectations 

Our culture often contrasts with our faith’s teachings, especially around the holidays. Society dictates that joy comes from perfect decorations and events. In contrast, true joy stems from divine presence. A peaceful spirit is more valuable to your family than a flawless holiday display. 

#### Intentional Daily Practices 

To sustain peace, try incorporating daily practices into December: 

- **Morning Rituals**: Dedicate 10-15 minutes each morning for prayer and reflection. Whether it’s over coffee or tea, start your day with gratitude. 

- **Focus on Gratitude**: Use gratitude as a filter for your decisions. If an action doesn’t bring joy or peace, question its place in your life. 

### Reflective Moment 

Ask yourself daily: What’s the one thing stealing my peace right now? Consider giving control to a higher power instead of shouldering it alone. 

### Anchoring in Faith 

A grounding Bible verse from Philippians states, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Let this promise guide you through the season. 

### Concluding with Community 

Before December begins, set aside one “peace hour” each weekend—a time with no screens, no to-do lists, and no obligations. Simply rest, reflect, and let your soul breathe. You can also find encouragement by connecting with others pursuing spiritual and financial growth through the Financially Confident Christian Community, where shared blessings and challenges remind you that you’re not alone. Join at financiallyconfidentchristian.com/join. 

### Final Thoughts 

December’s pace is within your control, even if December itself isn’t. Embrace peace intentionally and walk into this holiday season with determination and gratitude. You possess the strength to be both financially and spiritually secure. 

Prepare your heart now and celebrate the true joy and reason for the season thoughtfully. Go forward confidently, embracing both financial savvy and spiritual peace throughout the holidays.