I Lost My Job and Can't Pay My Credit Card Bill. What Do I Do in the Next 30 Days?
Key Takeaways
- When dealing with a sudden job loss and impending credit card bills, remember that your essentials—food, housing, utilities, transportation, and insurance—always come first before unsecured debt.
- Proactively call your credit card issuer before your payment due date to ask about specific hardship programs that can lower payments, pause collections, or waive late fees.
- File for unemployment immediately during your job loss to start the income machinery, as benefits typically run from the date you file rather than your last day of work.
- Create a bare-bones survival budget for your first 30 days to determine your exact financial gap and avoid making catastrophic financial mistakes like taking out payday loans.
- Understand that a single missed credit card payment is a manageable setback rather than a personal failure or immediate credit bureau catastrophe.
Job loss and a credit card bill hitting you at the same time? Yeah, that can feel like a punch to the gut. But don't sweat it; we’ve got your back! In this episode, we chat about what to do in the next 30 days when life throws you a curveball like this. It’s all about focusing on the essentials, making that call to your credit card company, and starting the income machinery ASAP. And trust me, we drop some solid tips to help you navigate this tough time without losing your cool. Stick around to the end for a juicy announcement about some exciting changes coming to the show!
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Sometimes life throws curveballs, right? Like losing your job and then getting hit with a credit card bill all in the same week. That’s a gut punch, no doubt! But don’t sweat it too much; we’re here to guide you through those wild 30 days ahead. We kick things off by talking about how it’s totally normal to feel scared when the paycheck stops coming in. Seriously, if you’re feeling that panic, take a deep breath. You’re not weak; you care about your family, and that’s a good thing. We dive into the steps you need to take—like prioritizing your essentials first. Food, housing, utilities, those are your must-haves! Then, we get into the nitty-gritty about calling your credit card company before that due date hits and asking about hardship programs. It’s all about being proactive, not reactive. Plus, we touch on filing for unemployment right away, sorting out health coverage, and making an emergency budget. You’ve got this, and trust me, 30 days from now, things will look different. I promise you that!
Takeaways:
- Losing a job can be scary, but it's crucial to prioritize essentials like food and housing first.
- If you find yourself jobless, make sure to call your credit card company before missing a payment.
- Filing for unemployment immediately after job loss can significantly help your financial situation.
- Building a bare-bones budget for 30 days allows you to see your actual financial gap, which is super helpful.
- Don't panic over missed payments; they're setbacks, not personal failures, and can often be managed with a plan.
- Remember, your worth isn't tied to your paycheck; you're more than just your job.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What should I do first if I experience a job loss and cannot pay my credit card bill?
You should prioritize your basic essentials such as food, housing, and utilities first. Credit card debt is unsecured and cannot impact your housing, making your family's daily survival the top priority during a job loss.
Should I call my credit card company before missing a payment after a job loss?
Yes, always call your credit card issuer before your due date arrives. Ask them directly about hardship programs, which can reduce your payments, pause collections, waive late fees, or lower your interest rate.
When should I file for unemployment after losing my job?
You should file for unemployment immediately during the same week you lose your job. In most states, benefit timelines start from the day you file rather than the day you stopped working.
Does a missed credit card payment immediately affect my credit score?
Typically, credit card companies do not notify credit bureaus until an account is 30 days past due. A single missed payment usually results in a late fee first, giving you a short window to work with your issuer.
Should I use a payday loan or tap into retirement to pay credit cards after a job loss?
No, you should avoid payday loans, cash advances, and raiding your retirement funds. These high-risk financial decisions often turn a temporary one-month gap into a long-term financial catastrophe.
00:00 - Untitled
00:00 - Navigating Job Loss
00:35 - Navigating Job Loss and Financial Priorities
04:10 - Navigating Job Loss and Financial Hardships
07:42 - Understanding Financial Fear
08:28 - Facing Hardships with Faith
11:46 - Transition to a New Show Format
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He lost his job on Friday.
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The credit card statement showed up the following Monday.
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If that's where you are right now, take a breath.
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You've got more room than it feels like you have.
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Here's exactly what to do in the next 30 days.
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And make sure you stay to the end because I've got a special announcement to make.
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Hey, friend.
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Ralph Estepp Jr.
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Here.
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Welcome to Financially Confident Christian.
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This is the show where we break that cycle of financial shame and give you confidence.
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And today we're going to talk about a job loss and a credit card bill landing in the same week and what to do the next 30 days.
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So if you're scared right now, I want to tell you right now that's not weakness.
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That's what's caring about your family feels like.
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And I've got answers for you today.
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But if you've got a question for this show, I would love to hear your question.
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That's what drives this entire show.
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You can go to financiallyconfidentchristian.com?
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We'll put a link in the show notes.
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But again, that's financially confidentchristian.com?
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Well, let's get into today's question.
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Listener wrote this.
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Ralph, I lost my job three days ago and my credit card statement is due in about two weeks.
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I don't have enough saved to cover it, and I'm terrified of what happens if I just can't pay it this month.
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I don't want to ignore it, but I also don't know what my actual options are right now.
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What do I do in the next 30 days?
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Thank you so much for sharing it.
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I am so sorry to hear about your job loss.
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I wish you well.
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I hope it works out for you.
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But here's the big idea for today.
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In a job loss, the credit card is the loudest voice in the room.
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But it's not the first priority.
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You gotta protect your essentials.
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Make a call before the due date and start the income machinery this week.
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And I'm gonna give you five moves because you've asked me for them.
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Five moves for the next 30 days.
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Here's move number one.
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You gotta protect the essentials first in order.
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And it's so important that we land here.
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The essentials have to come first.
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Food, housing, utilities, transportation to work, and insurance.
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They come first and every single time.
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To be blunt, a credit card is an unsecured debt.
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Nobody can take away your home or your car if you don't make your credit card payment.
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That's just the truth.
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But if you miss a mortgage payment or you miss a rent payment or a car payment, that does a different category of damage than missing a credit card payment.
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And I know you're not choosing to be irresponsible.
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You got to put your family in front of a balance.
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So write down that order now before the panic and that, because that can help that make that decision for you.
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Yes, a missed credit card payment hurts your credit, but a missed housing payment hurts your life.
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And they're not the same emergency.
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So that's number one.
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Number two, call the credit card company before the due date, not after.
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I worked for a long time in the credit union and banking industry.
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Almost every single card issuer has a hardship program.
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Those hardship programs will reduce your payments, they'll put a pause on collections, they'll waive late fees, and some of them even lower your rate for a set period of time.
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They don't get offered, they get requested.
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So get your card right now, call the number on the back of the card and say these words.
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I want you to write these down.
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I've lost my job.
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What hardship options do you have?
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Again, it's I've lost my job.
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What hardship options do you have?
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Call before the due date.
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Because that carries more weight than calling after you've already become behind.
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So write down the date.
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Write down the name of the rep you talked to and what they told you and get any agreement in writing.
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Call them before the due date.
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I can't pay.
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Sounds completely different before it happens, after the fact.
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So that's the second thing.
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Call them and ask them what their hardship policies are and do that number three thing.
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Start the income machinery this week.
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A lot of people forget about this one.
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As soon as you're made aware that you're losing your job, file for unemployment.
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Now.
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Those benefits generally run from when you file, not from when you lost your job.
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So if you wait, it's going to take a while.
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And every week you wait is usually a week that you don't get paid back.
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So as you're losing your job, and it's a terrible thing, I get it.
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Ask your employer about the final paycheck if you're going to get paid for any unused paid time off and any severance packages they may be offering.
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Another thing a lot of people don't think about is you've got to sort out your health coverage.
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You got to understand the difference between COBRA and a marketplace plan.
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Job loss typically opens a special enrollment window, and a lot of people don't think about it at the Time.
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There's so many things going on.
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This is the step that changes the math.
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Everyone else just buys time.
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So file for unemployment this week.
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In most states, the clock starts when you file, not when you lost your job.
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So that's number three.
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File for unemployment.
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Take a look at your insurance options.
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Here's number four.
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Build a bare bones 30 day number from actual cash.
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You got to count what's really there.
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So right now, go look at your checking account, go look at your savings balance, anything that's owed to you, anything already scheduled, scheduled to hit.
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And then I'm going to encourage you to do a special budget.
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Not your old budget, but what I'll call an emergency one, a survival cost for 30 days.
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What are my survival things?
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And you may have to make some tough decisions.
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You might have to cancel some subscriptions.
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You may have to remove those automatic payments that aren't for survival.
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Once you do that, you can see the actual gap.
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You're going to see the real number, not the one you've been fearing that was shouting at you.
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And a real number is something you can make decisions against.
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You can't plan around a number you haven't looked at.
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So that's number four, is put together your survival budget.
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And then I want you to be honest with yourself.
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You gotta know what a missed payment actually does and what it doesn't do.
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So many people get so fearful of this.
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A missed payment typically means a late fee first.
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The credit bureaus generally aren't notified until you're 30 days past due.
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A lot of people don't know that.
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Like if you miss your payment, the credit bureau isn't going to get notified.
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Your bank isn't going to send them and say, hey Joe, forgot to pay.
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Usually it's after 30 days.
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So that gap is a real time to work with it.
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And it's why that phone call that I mentioned in the other step is so important.
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Don't fix a one month gap with a payday loan.
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A lot of people say, oh, at this point I'm gonna go get one of those payday loans or a cash advance.
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A lot of people drain their retire.
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Those type of decisions are going to turn a rough month into a rough decade.
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Hear me on this.
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It will not be a wise thing to do.
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And if your balance on that credit card is genuinely unmanageable, one of the things you can consider is a nonprofit credit counseling agency may be a good call.
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Not a debt settlement ad.
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I'm talking about a non profit credit counseling agency.
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One missed payment is a setback you can recover from.
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A payday loan is a loan that keeps getting harder and harder to do.
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Yes, missing one payment is a setback, but it's not a catastrophe.
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The ways people try to avoid it are usually the real catastrophe.
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By doing that payday loan or taking the money out of their retirement.
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Don't do those things.
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But now I want to go a little deeper.
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There's a particular kind of fear that shows up two in the morning when you've lost your income and a bill is sitting on the counter with your name on it.
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And it really isn't about the balance, is it?
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It's about whether you're still the person your family can count on.
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You were the breadwinner.
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You were always bringing in that income.
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And that fear is honest, but that fear is not the truth about you.
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Losing a job is something that happened to you.
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It's not a verdict of who you are.
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And faith doesn't promise us.
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I wish it did.
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But faith doesn't promise us that that next job is going to arrive before the next due date.
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It might not.
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It doesn't promise us that this month isn't going to be hard.
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It's going to be hard.
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But I love what Isaiah 41:10 tells.
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It says, do not fear, for I am with you.
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Notice what God promises there.
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God doesn't tell us there isn't going to be hard things.
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He doesn't promise us the absence of a hard thing, but he promises us his presence inside of it.
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The strength to help and being upheld.
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That's the promise.
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And that promise is enough for 30 days at a time.
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God doesn't promise it.
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You're never going to face a month like this one.
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But he does promise us that he'll never leave us alone inside of it.
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You're not being punished.
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You're being carried one day at a time through something hard.
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So I want you to hear this, and I want you to hear this loud and clear.
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Losing a job is not a moral failure.
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It's a hard month.
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It might be several hard months, but it's not a permanent condition.
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And I know you're not ignoring your bill.
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You're handled in the right order.
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Thirty days from now, this is going to look different than it does tonight.
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So here's your win for today.
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If you're facing the same situation, maybe you got a little bit of headway.
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Call the number on the back of the car before the due date and ask what hardship options there are.
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Even if you haven't lost your job.
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Maybe you lost your hours or maybe something happened.
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Call them.
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Ask them what their hardship options are and if you have lost your job, go file for unemployment the same day.
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A lot of times you can do it right online.
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You got to stop being a bill that's happening to you and start becoming someone working with the plan.
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Let's get to our Bible verse.
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I've already mentioned it.
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It's Isaiah 41:10.
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It says, do not fear, for I am with you.
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Do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
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I will strengthen you and help you.
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I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
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For so many of us, fear is the loudest voice in a moment like this.
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And this verse from the Lord is God's direct answer to that fear.
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It's not some vague promise, but it's a specific one.
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He'll be with you.
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How about we pray right now together?
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Heavenly Father, I just want to thank you for this listener and I want to thank you for the work that he's done to provide for the people he loves.
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And he's scared right now and you know that Lord.
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So I would just ask that you would quiet that fear that's keeping him up and give him a clear mind for the calls he needs to make, Lord.
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Give him favor with the people on the other end of the phone this week.
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Provide work, Lord, and provide it soon.
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Meet those needs that his own hands can't cover right now and remind him that his worth was never his paycheck.
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Uphold him Lord, exactly as you promised.
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One day at a time.
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And we ask this in Jesus name.
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Amen friend.
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The card is the loudest bill in the house right now, but it's not the first one.
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Focus on the essentials.
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Focus on that phone call.
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Get that unemployment file this week and really live in that 30 day number of what you have to spend.
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And realize that missed payment isn't your whole plan.
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So protect food, clothing, housing, utilities, transportation, insurance.
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Call the credit card issuer file for unemployment.
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Build that bare bones survival budget.
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Skip those payday loans, those cash advantages.
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Don't raid your retirement.
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And if you've got a question for this show, go to our website@financiallyconfidentchristian.com voicemail Again, we'll put a link in the show notes, but that's financially confidentchristian.com voicemail now before I go, I mentioned I have something new to tell you about this show is going to change its name starting Monday, August 31st and it's going to be called Becoming Financially Confident.
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I hope you like that name?
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We spent a lot of time looking at that.
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It's going to be a live show.
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Yes, live every weekday at 11:30am Eastern Time for a full hour, not just a short one anymore.
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It's going to be me and a co host, two voices, no lectures.
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We're going to talk about real bills, real numbers, no jargon, and of course, no shame.
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And live chat is part of the show.
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You can get your questions answered right on the air.
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But the podcast isn't going anywhere.
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The live show is where we go deeper in real time.
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And listen, if 11:30am doesn't work for you, don't worry about it.
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We're going to go live at 11:30 Eastern and then the whole show is going to get released as a podcast episode later that same day.
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Thank you so much for joining me today.
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I want to encourage you to stay financially savvy.
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May God bless you.
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And you have a great day today.
